People who have planned a wedding know how much angst and effort goes into the whole process. Jewelers, caterers and florists can make the process festive but much more difficult. These tips will help you have the perfect wedding.
One of the most vital aspects of your wedding is going to be the music that you play. Make sure that the music is modern, but is very personal too, as it should represent the two parties tying the knot. This will add to the ambience of the overall experience of your wedding.
On the day of the wedding, make sure that you show your parents and the parents of your future husband or wife a lot of attention. This is their big day too, as they are finally getting to see the child they love so much get married after many years of waiting.
When you walk down the aisle on the day of your wedding, make sure that you smile as often as possible. All eyes are going to be on you as you will want to look as happy and excited as possible in one of the biggest moments of your entire life.
Make sure that after your wedding you send thank-you notes to all of your guests for not only coming to your wedding but for the gifts that they gave to you. This will make them feel special and show that you appreciated them using their time to share your special moment.
The best photographs are candid, so try to have as many unposed photographs taken as possible. My favorite wedding shots are from my reception where guests, and myself and the groom, are laughing and having a great time. These are the memories you want to have for the rest of your married life!
Here’s a fun tip – practice your wedding kiss! You want to make it sincere and not sexy, not too short but not too long. NO TONGUE! Practice how you’ll hold your partner’s face, if you choose to, or where your hands will be otherwise. You only get one shot, so you’ll need LOTS of practice beforehand!
To ensure you have photos of everyone in attendance at your wedding, have a photo booth set up right next to your guest book. Photo booth rentals are readily available and can be set up in a variety of ways, usually with the help of the booth operator, who will assist your guests and guide them into making some memorable pictures for your photo guest book. When the photo has been developed, the attendant can put the picture into an album and have the guest sign it with their congratulatory wishes. You can also choose to have two sets of photos printed so you can give your guests one as a little remembrance of your special event.
If you are having a destination wedding, surprise your guests with a basket chock full of goodies delivered to their hotel room. You can include tidbits like tourist maps, sunglasses, novelty towels or even information on nearby attractions. You could also toss in a few suggestions for local eateries and cafes.
When considering how many ushers you’ll need to seat people at your ceremony, know that the common standard is using approximately one usher for every fifty people. In a smaller venue you may only need one usher, especially if the aisle is small and only one group can be seated at a time. Think ahead!
If you choose to use a wedding cake that is colorful, you might want to place it on top a coordinating piece of fabric. You can opt for patterns, solids or heavily textured fabrics, such as silk, satin or velvet, to add visual interest and tie all elements together.
You can use pastel and brightly colored lightweight tissue paper to create oversize buds and blooms for your wedding ceremony and reception site. Instead of using ribbon or twine, use clear nylon thread or fishing line to attach each bloom to the ceiling or door frame. The flowers will appear to float above the heads of guests and are both affordable and easy to construct.
It is pointless to spend large amounts of money on large centerpieces that may very well interfere with your guests’ conversations. Avoid overbearing table decor; instead, opt for something simple yet elegant pieces. This way, your guests are able to talk among themselves a lot easier, without having to try to do so through foliage.
Make sure you think of every detail, from the entertainment to the food. You want all your guests to be excited and engaged.
Since you have read the tips above, you can start planning your wedding with ease. Whether you are planning a wedding for yourself or someone else, you’ll find these tips quite helpful.